Kira how is puffy?.... Sorry I missed this had mil in hospital

You know puffy has had a huge change in her little life the New house a new baby and mummy working and possible change in your hours. don't think your a bad mommy your not, sometimes we want to do it our way even though advice is given, and its a learning curve. When molly came home to us We allowed Milly 10 days in our bedroom with little visits downstairs in our arms. We live and learn. Maybe just get back to basics & there is nothing wrong with having one on one time and having one sleep with you and not the other. We all do it differently. Breath deeply and repeat after me I AM A GOOG MOMMA I AM A GOOD MOMMA and relax they pick up on it, h and don't be too hard on yourself ok sunshine these things happen to us all xxxx

Awwwwwwww, I read somewhere Persians are suseptable to stress. Whether or not that is true, PPP is quickly recovering and I know when she does, her life will be richer for having Chunk around. She is no longer alone, even if he is in the bathroom. I think cats like having each other around, even if they aren't besties.

And Kira, there is just something special about you and all of us that love our animals. We are compasionate and loyal and we really should run the world, it would be a much kinder and loving place.

LOL! @ Maggie Bop for Kira for worrying too much.
We have all done it.

I am also glad I have this site to come for support and hugs.
big hugs
Paula

Oh, you poor sweeties

I know by now things have progressed a bit.
Honestly, from the pictures I have seen the look in her eyes
tells me she is just basically sick.
She could never hate you - she loves you to bits

It's a scary thing though to see our cats go from fine to sick.
I hope it doesn't last too long

Oh Kira,

I've not been to the boards for a few days trying to catch up on stuff at home and I come back and see this. I was almost in tears reading how upset you are. Like so many have stated sweetie, YOU are NOT a bad momma! You love both those babies and we know it and they know it! Well Chunk is learning but Puffy knows. She loves you too and I'm sure feels all the stress you have ALL been under. Please don't be so hard on yourself. The excitement of a new baby is always so much fun for us....but not necessarily for our resident babies. It will all be ok...Puffy will adjust and so will you. Try to find as much "normalcy" (is that a word?) as you can right now hon.

BIG HUGS!!!
Kisses to Puffy and Chunk!